Who uses those grills in the park?
Building stronger community ties starts with showing up where people already gather to create meaningful connections and foster community.
How do you keep collaborations from fizzling out?
Today, you get a sneak preview of my upcoming book on the Idea Friendly Method. I’ve heard a lot from people all over struggling to create collaborations, and this story provides some practical insights in making collaboration last. In the late 1990s, Curtis Wynn stepped into the role of CEO at Roanoke Electric Cooperative in…
Bridging the groups in your community
I was reading Jon Swanson’s 300 Words a Day newsletter, and he shared this really old truth about building community from a Bible story: “Jesus was traveling from Galilee to Jerusalem. And it went right along the border of two bad parts of town. Or two great parts of town. I mean, everyone has part…
How to get people to stop with the objections and look to next steps
Linda is a economic development board member from a town of 5,000 people. Inspired by our stories, she and the board members want to create a Tiny Business Village, like the one above. They’ve been sharing their vision for the village project with the city council because they need permission to spend over a certain…
People can’t believe in ideas they can’t see
When Rebecca Undem interviewed me, she shared a story that helps explain why some people just don’t seem to get excited by your idea. Rebecca bought and rehabbed an old building in Oakes, North Dakota, (population 1800) to support and develop more local businesses with coworking, an event venue, conference space, training space and a…
Strengthen local community bonds by painting something together
The best antidote to the forces pulling us apart as communities is local action that brings us together. Local action that brings us together can be as simple as painting something together. When I visited Rosthern, Saskatchewan, I was struck by these colorful murals filled with circles. I saw several mounted to different downtown buildings….
Turn complainers into the Pillars of the Community
What do you do about the people who just complain about everything but don’t ever take any action? That was one of the questions when I visited Caldwell, Kansas, recently. Here’s my advice: Recruit them to join the Pillars of the Community: to show up and encourage people. They can show up with their lawn…
Hope is as infectious as despair
That headline–hope is as infectious as despair–came from Geoffrey Canada, of the Harlem Children’s Zone, speaking at the recent Council of State Governments East Annual Conference. You know I’m always taking notes, looking for ideas we can adapt from big cities and small towns to our own communities. I liked that statement about hope so…
Exactly what our communities need right now
I just spent 30 minutes re-listening to the audio version of our Building a Unified Community. This is still exactly what we need right now. You build a stronger community through experiences that bring people together from across different groups to each play a meaningful role. Deb and I wrote and recorded that in 2021….
Melody Warnick and SaveYour.Town are Keeping and Attracting Talented People in Rural Places
Melody Warnick’s books have been refreshing reads for me in thinking about how people and place interact to create the culture in rural communities. In This Is Where You Belong, Melody talks openly about her own struggle to feel connected when she moved to a new town. In If You Could Live Anywhere she shares…
Our natural rural collaboration vs. our giant silos
A couple of times last year I had the chance to hear Dell Gines talk about collaboration. Both times, he used the phrase “build robust networks for targeted purposes.” That resonated for me as Deb Brown and I often tell you stories about Building Connections and turning your crowd into a powerful network as part…
Who’s in your message group? An Idea Friendly way to stay motivated
Two people at the Oklahoma Arts Council conference mentioned their support message groups. This is such a simple idea I wanted to share it with you. Alena Jennings said people call her The Doodle Lady because she runs The Doodle Academy, an art experience education business in downtown Ponca City. Alena has connected with several…